I think, educate, it should be the intact education, including every aspect, should not confine to the limited knowledge on the textbook.  
A lot of people think, at the stage of primary school when U.S.A. educates, have not taught a lot of useful knowledge in the school. They are here to U.S.A. "  The basic education "  After being disappointed and helpless, I wonder how to reply, though some parents, let their child take the way to skip a grade both worried and gladly, but how many grades a child can jump in all one’s life? By seeing, after even a lot of Chinese children jump two third grade, their mathematics can lead of me. Then, and then the woolen cloth? Be jumping constantly?  
I pour and often complain about the American school to people "  Do not teach " The phenomenon of something is disapproving. The foundation of mathematics,physics and chemistry of China seems very strong, the Olympic contest is in full flourish, it is very bad that U.S.A.’s mathematics is educated by contrast, but why mathematician of U.S.A. is not so few than China?  
I think, the problem of study lies in oneself, I think, " slow " in the American primary school Teaching process gratifying and congratulatory,give it child sufficient space, the thing letting children obtain more and is interested in each, make the thing that oneself likes being done, have chance of a self-development. If homework of school extremely busy, child return how have time and energy make time and energy like thing that make, develop one’s own thinking and potentiality? Why can be the goal in one’s own particular life, study and train some particular knowledge, ability and skill? The loose atmosphere of the school is developed with the condition by oneself instead, enable children to be since written freely and easily, develop the field in which oneself is interested in. This is in fact "  The bad thing " Turn into the good thing.  
At this stage when parents should pay close attention to the child, explore the child’s interest ambition, according to the child’s characteristic, train their interest hobby consciously, arrange various study and activity for child. Must not wasteland fee this piece great an opportunity! I begin from the daughter’s preschool class, in this section of loosest, most important, most valuable time of grade 56, have trained and produced hobby, good study and habits and customs of influence all one’s life to her, have tempered independent and riper thinking.  
My method is, hold " the special mess " greatly for her at this stage ,Arrange a lot of and teach oneself the plan after class, participate in the after-school activities project. For example, solve the mathematics question, practise typing, studying ballet and national dance, studying the piano, studying to swim, read the outside reading in a large amount, practise the writing, study Spanish of French, recite SAT/GRE word, wait a moment. Certainly, this is planning carefully, will try every possible means to let children accept at happy state.  
The extensive one is dabbled, the interest hobby intended to train, good study habits and customs, the solid knowledge foundation learning to lay after class, has made a comprehensive study and a thorough master of into her character, make her form the diligently independent habit while as a child. Begin from grade 67, the consciousness that she studies independently, thinks independently is very strong, it is very strong-minded that anything crops up. Enter the university, is admitted to the law schools, until finding the best working opportunity, all rely on herself to plan, think independently, determine oneself, through the whole journey, broad and level.  
Most children, including later very successful child was not all " talents" ,My daughter is as the same. If put her into the key middle school of China, under the environment of several hundred people’s identical training, don’t say that break out, I’m afraid that it is difficult to keep the state of being middling, how can dabble extensive knowledge and master a lot of skills? She can develop in an all-round way, possess broad knowledge and ability, in key childhood, the teenager’s growth stage such as her, there is one’s own space, designed in early life, not because of so-called talent and " talent " .  
Educate and it studies to be should meaningful having goaling, should grow around people ideal come on, go on. If the education of the school is unable to realize the goal of one’s own education and life, interfere with one’s own education, it is not the good education, will try every possible means to change it, stop it or is far away from it soon.  
Some parents think some schools have interfered with their child’s education in U.S.A., then not allow children to study in the school, but let them " go to school at home " ,Named Home schooling. According to the statistics in 2003 which American Ministry of Education announce, 1,100,000 students of 5 to 17 years old " went to school at home " in U.S.A. ,Accounts for 2.2% that the whole aesthetics grew the number of people. Various of reason why parents decide to let the child go to school at home, 48.9% parents among them think, the family has study condition better than school. These parents think, let the child go to school at home, has reached the satisfying educational objective. There is location that live in California, is called the girl of the jasmine lotus, it is a famous outstanding student going to school at home in the whole America. Hour because mathematics is very good, there is no good mathematics teacher in the school, in addition, course of the school makes her not have enough time to play the violin, mother decides to let her go to school at home, work as a teacher by oneself. She 4 year old study musical instrument, 9 year old begin, perform at professional concert, mother teach her reach 16 year old. Hereafter, she went to the nearby community university to have a class, had already got requested credits of 100 universities (generally graduate from university to need 130 credits) at the age of 18 . It is in she it is professional for quartet chief for violin,when play with symphony orchestra association in the capacity of solo violinist, go to Europe to make a performance tour. She was chosen as one of the 10 best high school graduates the whole America by " US Today " in 1998, according to she page 3 long resume and she recommendation admission that mother write Princeton University. In 2001, among 682 university students that " US Today " recommended from every university of the whole America, choose her as one of the 20 most remarkable university students the whole America. She studies mathematics in Princeton University, 4 total achievement 4.0, none of B, while graduating from in 2002, obtain the supreme honor of the graduate of the whole America - -Rod scholar, get Oxford University study for professional graduate student of mathematics. This is one of the countless typical successful cases not allowing school education to interfere with being educated by oneself.